Status of beautiful girls “not married”
Public opinion says: “Up to 20 years old russian girl should get married!”.
We are used to the fact that every russian girl dreams of getting married, starting from the cradle, and the russian woman must necessarily be married (shape does not matter, come and civil marriage).Each of the fairer sex is simply obliged to mend someone’s socks, cook endless breakfast-lunch-dinner, show the wonders of sewing skills and skill roll with one hand banks of cucumbers (grown in their own country), and the other – ironing. Her main interest is definitely love for knitting, lace and macramé, beadwork, petit point, cross and technique of “Richelieu”, knowing by heart the books “Kitchen of the world”, “The Great Encyclopedia of cooking” and “10,000 dishes of cabbage, rice and buckwheat “and the art of origami and ikebana. She truly enjoys mixers, vacuum cleaners, microwave ovens, tea sets, a set of elephants or blue porcelain ballerina. Contemptuous looks at fur, gold jewelry and lingerie …
Dismal picture in which modern life has made a very serious changes. Beautiful girls do not want to get married (at least, so frantically), they are set to check a “high feeling” cohabitation and general way of life. The exception is the marriage of the Prince: the underground millionaire, with its own car park and a dozen boats. For him, the favorite, and you can learn the culinary encyclopedia by heart and learn to pickle cucumbers on old Indian recipes.
Most of my friends are not married, it’s not in their claims or inflated claims. Generally, they are well educated, have good looks, a good character, a stable income and a separate house from his parents. They appreciate yourself! Exchanged for all graduates of vocational schools and inadequate men they do not want they want, what would be next to a normal man. What is a “normal man”? I’ll try to explain. He is able to earn money to support his family (he does not have to be a banker or owner of the company with a worldwide reputation), clever (read the book are not limited «Gingerbread», «Turnip” and “get out of that, little blue”), attractive (with the assertion that a man should be a little nicer monkeys let me disagree), raised (“hey, my friend, do not give me a cigarette?” – This option is no longer relevant), tactful and not too picky about the home. Options is weight, this – the minimum set of qualities. With a strong desire, everything else can be brought up or to compromise (we, too, are not all perfect).
A year ago I was visiting my beautiful girlfriend (we went to the same university), she was eight years living in Germany. She is not married, but we have the same age (only with me – 10 years of family experience). It looks wonderful, it immediately stands out from the crowd of subtle charm, a certain inner freedom and the absence of the “look fancier.” I ask the question of marriage and get a very interesting and unusual answer: “I am still too early to think.” I raises an eyebrow in surprise … “You see, abroad a different mentality. They are in no hurry to jump to marry before 20. They learn, work, live for fun and do not rush to burden themselves with family, and 35 years of commercials. Then – get married a few years and then examines the relationships, closer to 40, have children. We will never understand them, and they will never understand us. ” I look at it and clearly understand that we – the representatives of the different planets and lifestyles. And deep down, I told her fiercely jealous because … She is still to come 🙂