Hard to believe, looking at the loving couple that is in candy buketno period, that once these good boy and darling, tenderly embracing and caring for each other, can be real violence – from a psychological point of view, or, even worse, from the physical.
At the beginning of the relationship, even the first few months after the wedding, rarely shows his not so pleasant traits, on the contrary, we want to be good, perfect for his or her spouse.
As they say, do not hide an awl in a sack, and a moment comes when there are conflicts. In a fit of rage wife (recently souls in each other not chayavshie) begin to humiliate and insult each other! If the situation is repeated from time to time, it starts to enter into shape, and already it comes to battering.
Usually this “suffer” man. Beautiful women less than men. Especially those who love the bottle of liquor. But not only that! Absolute drinkers also sometimes assert themselves and let off steam in the form of foul language and criticism of the wife.
In the case of alcoholics or clearly mentally unstable individuals all clear (need specialist care, treatment), the others need to be corrected behavior. Why do they behave? One of the reasons, by the way, the most common, is tracing the behavior of their parents, that is, the behavior of a family member, a person borrowed from childhood.
Another reason – temperament, a case where it’s really hard to cope with their emotions, manage their anger. Russian woman is in this case to show the wisdom to understand the problem, apply some action to eliminate the cause. Sometimes, it just takes a serious conversation “heart to heart” at rest. Or again, if you can not solve the problem yourself and you want to save the union, do not neglect through family psychologist.